Here Are the Best Sex Toys for Women Over 50
For mature women only!
In season 3 of the hit Netflix comedy Grace And Frankie, Grace (played by Jane Fonda) unveils her state-of-the-art sex toy for older women. It has everything: a lightweight grip handle, glow-in-the-dark buttons, and flexible angled head. If only her design were real! In lieu of Netflix launching their own licensed Grace and Frankie vibrator, we scoured the Internet for reviews and recommendations to bring you the best sex toys for women over 50.
If your sex toy search has left you unsatisfied, you’re not alone. Women over 50 struggle to find sex toys for a number of reasons. You may have rheumatoid arthritis, which makes any sort of gripping or vibrating uncomfortable on your hands and joints. For women experiencing menopause or postmenopausal symptoms, a non-penetrative device is key. And for every woman, regardless of age, finding the right sex toy can take trial and error. But you deserve to feel sexy!
Here are the hottest sex toys for women over 50 from bestselling brands with high-quality products. We’ve also included the reasons that make them accessible, comfortable, and, most importantly, fun! If you’ve only used one kind of sex toy, it may be time to try something new. If you’ve never tried any toy or sex aid, these are great options for novices and experts alike.
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Palm Power Massager
The Palm Power Massager comes highly recommended for women with arthritis. It has one easily clickable button, which you hold to increase intensity. The long handle absorbs the vibrations of its powerful head, so it won’t hurt to hold. It’s lightweight and ergonomic with a bendable neck for effortless positioning. The adaptable device also features a removable head that you can swap out for a variety of shaped attachments. It’s ideal for newcomers who want to keep it simple, but who may also want to branch out in the future.
Iroha Rechargeable Silicone Vibrator (Yuki)
Unbelievably soft and squishy, the compact Iroha Yuki vibrator is best for women who have pain or discomfort with penetration. The snowman shape allows for a little insertion, while the silicon body works for external and clitoral stimulation. It’s rechargeable, discreet, and cute!
Touted as a “technological breakthrough in orgasmic response,” the Eroscillator 2 is unlike any other vibrator or sex toy. It comes with the enthusiastic endorsement of sex therapist (and woman over 50) Dr. Ruth Westheimer. The secret? It oscillates rather than vibrates, making it the ideal device for women with arthritis to grip and maneuver. An extra tip for maximum pleasure: try it with the fan-favorite soft fingertip head!
We-Vibe Touch X Vibrator
The We-Vibe Touch X Vibrator is the go-to travel vibrator for many women. Its sleek, fully waterproof design and travel lock make it worthy of your carry-on. With 8 intensity settings and 7 pulse patterns, it isn’t one-note either. Plus, you can choose between two fashionable colors: Crave Coral or Green Velvet.
Volta by Fun Factory
The Volta is a highly-reviewed, distinctive toy for those who find traditional vibrators boring. With its range of 6 intensity levels, the fluttering split-tips can provide pleasure all over your body—or your partner’s body, regardless of gender. Its ergonomic handle is solid and sturdy. Perfect for partnered play or a solo session!
Patchy Paul G5 Vibrator by Fun Factory
Fun Factory, which also makes the Volta, reuses their same sturdy handle for the ribbed Patchy Paul G5 Vibrator. Don’t be afraid of the size either: the tip begins at 1.1 inch diameter and slowly increases for your comfort.
Limba Flex Dildo
For those who need a no-tech option, this is the perfect toy for beginners. It comes in two thin shapes made of body-safe silicone with a suction-cup end. You can bend it into any position with ease.
The Magic Wand is a classic, beloved massager for a reason. The cordless option is more convenient than the plugged-in original, and the simple front buttons make it uncomplicated to operate.
Je Joue Mimi Soft Luxury Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator
A super discreet pick, the Je Joue Mimi Soft Luxury Vibrator is as sensual as it sounds. It delivers powerful vibrations in 5-6 speeds and patterns. A clitoral vibrator is ideal for women who experience postmenopausal symptoms, or who cannot reach orgasm from vaginal penetration.
We-Vibe Melt Clitoral Stimulator
Another clitoral stimulator—this time with suction—the We-Vibe Melt is a showstopper. The round silicone head surrounds the clitoris and gives it all the attention it needs. The ergonomic shape is easy to grip and the extra suction means there’s less vibrating and adjustment necessary.
Not a “sex toy” in the traditional sense, but a great addition to any toy or sex session, the Liberator Wedge is an accessible option to make your next experience effortless and effective. Your pelvic floor will thank you!
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